Dating an older guy is common for a woman or a girl even, people has learned to accept it even though in some cases it’s still a TABOO. These women can’t be blamed either ways,especially when they have been let down a couple of times dating people of their own age. If you’re tired of waiting around for a “good guy,” you might want to explore another age group: “the older man”. Here are some things you can expect from these ripe gents:
THEY ARE STABLE:
You will never hear, “i have to focus on my career right now” The older man is settled. He has made a career in this field or the other. He is free to focus on you, his interests and desires and, eventually, your mutual plans. How liberating would it be to be with a man who can focus on the relationship irrespective of whatever else is going on in his life?
THEY ARE READY TO SETTLE DOWN:
The truth is an older guy must have dated for decades, had more flings than a slingshot and is looking for commitment in the form of a meaningful relationship. If they believe you’re the right one, they’ll tell you so and mobilize to win you over.
HE WILL SHOW YOU THINGS AND PLACES YOU NEVER THOUGHT EXISTED:
With age comes experience. This is no secret. If you have an adventurous spirit and you’re curious about the world, let him show you the ropes. You may find yourself in a country you didn’t even know was on the map or in a workman’s shop that makes customary doorknobs for country homes. The older man doesn’t just know the streets of your city; he knows the back alleys as well. Let him show you the world.
DATING IS MADE SO MUCH EASIER:
Because an older guy has a job, his own friends, hobbies and schedules; you won’t have to worry about him been too clingy. There will be less fights and misunderstanding because he’s probably been through all the wrong moves. He won’t be jealous unnecessarily because he’s a grown ass man. And if you’re right for each other, you can count on him to be the Jack to your Rose. I mean he’ll be loyal to you till the end.
SEXUAL EXPERIENCE IS BETTER:
No more questioning whether or not he’ll hold your hand or introduce you to his friends. Sex will be intimate. He will kiss you, look you in the eyes when he’s inside you and tell you how beautiful you are. He will know how to touch you so that you enjoy sex just as much as he does. He will appreciate each time he gets to sleep with you because he looks at it as an experience, not an adventure.
THEY ARE GOOD WITH KIDS:
Have you ever seen an early twenty-something guy been handed a baby? He holds it out from his body like he has stiff little Tyrannosaurus arms and the baby hangs there like, “Who the fuck handed me to this beer-breathed sociopath in cargo shorts?” Older guys probably have nieces or nephews or neighbor kids by this point and can interact with a child in a normal way. And holy shit, is it cute.
HE IS FINANCIALLY SECURE:
Older men are financially secure. Even if they are not rich, they know where there money is, and this won’t be an issue. You won’t have to worry about contributing to the bill even on the 5th date. If you choose to, it’s because YOU CHOOSE TO out of fairness and equality, not because his courtship grace period is over.
If you find yourself uninspired by the oh-so familiar dating dynamics of your age group, try an older gent. This may not be the guy you see yourself marrying and having kids with, but it’ll sure be a low-risk adventure that you’ll never forget.